We only get so many moments

We only get so may moments to spend with one another make them good ones.

For those of you fighting with your true love; take stock.  The moments you get to spend together are fleeting.

Wendy and I actually never really fought. The conflicts that we did have were very short lived - hours at most.  As sickening as it may sound we both almost played this game of "who could acquiesce the most."  This is not quite true of course.  Because that would really make me throw up. The point is is that we looked inside ourselves and figured out what was each of our parts in the conflict. And both of us ALWAYS had a part.  We would immediately try to find our part and make amends to one another.  And miraculously the conflict would cease to be.  Out of every conflict what ultimately happened was we came closer together and found our love for one another deepen.

I kind of feel that there must be some law of the Universe which states that the love between two people has a maximum depth.  Once that depth has been passed one of the people have to be removed. I am sorry. This is me being the victim.  Alas there is no such law.  It is just the brutal reality of life.

This insentience need to be right left me when I was with her.  In every conflict I think unconsciously I would ask myself is this conflict worth the cost of being right.  The answer was always "no."  She did the same thing I think. Because sometimes I would be right and sometimes she would be. It was really quite beautiful.  I would happily be wrong all the time if I could be with her again.