To Tara Nov 15, 2017 at 11:57 AM

On Wed, Nov 15, 2017 at 11:57 AM, to Tara

So she told me that she is allowing herself one date a week because she is taking care of herself.  That was at lunch on Monday.   So I am not going to ask her out again.  We have our date scheduled for when I get back.  So I sent her a text this morning - taking your advice about not backing off. I am Staying away from the phone as not to obsess.

However; (this is the oh fuck part)  She put up a gratitude list on FB this AM.  You can look at it on my time line maybe- not sure if you can see it.  Anyway the second item down is something like "Thank you Joe Grey for the hook up at the Orpheum tonight."  So I am wondering if you were in my shoes, would it be acceptable for the guy you are interested in to be dating other women?  I am feeling like I want to shut it down and go climb a mountain.

A couple of things - she didn't really mean it when she said one date a week although she might have met one date a week with each guy.  Joe Gray commented back about how happy he was to be on the gratitude list of someone so wonderful.  There is another guy too that commented something similar.

On our first "date"  She mentioned she was dating other guys.  She mentioned Joe in particular and said that he was a "normal" guy.  He was really nice and something else I cannot remember.  Of course I looked at his face book page and he is "the voice" of the Lumber Jacks.  He is extroverted, cool, smooth - all that shit that I am not.  I am sure my little endearing qualities fall short.  I told her I was an introvert.  She said that all the disastrous relationships she had been in have been with alcoholic introverts.  Not looking good.

Oh yeah, the something else was that he was emotionally available.  It's like me but better!

Fuck

Andy